Terrible Twos.
Everyone has heard about the terrible twos. What exactly is so terrible? I'm not sure... My children (so far) haven't seemed to hit the terrible twos until they turn three... the new attitude, the ability to communicate, the ability to say
no to mama. It's no fun.
Here's the thing, though.
Four has so far, been
much worse than three ever tried to be.
We are having major issues with our four year old. He's grumpy, stubborn, having toilet issues... unwilling to pick up toys, getting into things he shouldn't be, and refusing to sleep despite being very tired.
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I started typing this post this morning before school. All hell was breaking loose. I was starting to lose my mind. It was one of those mornings, you know, when you just want people to put on their clothes and shoes and finish their breakfast so you can get out the door without losing your voice. But instead of doing what you want them to do, they just smash crackers into the carpet, scream no at you, and refuse to do anything productive.
After school, Ian wanted to go back to his classroom because he lost one of his cars and he wanted to see if it was there. I had a chance to talk to his teachers, who reported he's doing fabulous in school. No stubbornness, no yelling, no grumpy. They were so surprised when I told them how he's been acting at home.
Super. Our son is Dr. Jekyll & Mr. Hyde.
Are
all four-year-olds like that? I seem to get an impression that a lot of them are, but not many parents are willing to dis their kids in front of other parents. I'd like to know, though, because the way Ian has been acting the last few days, I'm starting to wonder if there's something more than "being four" going on with him.
Anyway, the tables have been turned and he's been quite a delight this afternoon. He even settled in on the couch for a nap. (He hasn't taken one for several weeks.)
So what in the world? Again, with
the game of Clue...